Monday, May 27, 2019

05-26-2019 - Rod's Letter, "1st week in Georgia"


Dear Family and Friends,
Well we have completed our first week in Georgia and we really like it here.  We left SLC on Friday May 17 in a rainstorm which turned into a snowstorm when we got to Parley’s Canyon.  We drove through another snow storm and several rainstorms that day before stopping for the night in Limon, Colorado.  The next day we left the mountains in our rear view mirror and drove for hours across billiard table flat plains.  It was beautiful nevertheless.   Those amber waves of grain that we sing about start out as green fields and they seemed to go on forever.  We had torrential rain in Missouri and found out that night that there had been tornadoes in Oklahoma, Kansas and Missouri that day.  Missed us by “ “ that much. 

We arrived in Fayetteville on Monday and were met by 5 strapping elders who unloaded our car in nothing flat.  I was a little concerned about unloading because we had packed our belongings in six large totes and several were quite heavy and our apartment is on the 3rd floor.  It was no problem for the Elders of Israel and in a short time we were moved in.  We have had to shop for groceries and a few things to try and make this apartment home.  We brought some family pictures from home and have hung them on the walls so we are ready to nestle in for the next 18 months. 

It has been hot here this week with temperatures in the mid-90’s but is not yet very humid.  After a long cold spring, Carol is loving the warmth. 



We have thought several times that we ought to get in the car and go for a ride and see the surrounding country.  Then we realize that we aren’t going to see much except for lots of trees.  All of the roads are cut through thick hardwood forests and driving down the road is like driving in a green tunnel.  There are also some very tall pine trees but unless they are in someone’s yard they are green all the way up because their trunks are covered with vines.  On wider roads you can see the sky but there are still  thick stands of trees on both sides of the road.  There are signs on the side of the road to tell you which stores are hidden behind the trees.  Yesterday we went to the Atlanta Temple with one of the office couples and two of the office elders.  The temple is about an hour north of us and lots of trees along the way.  Autumn should be incredible. 

Without the mountains I have totally lost my sense of direction.  When I look at the compass in the car and it tells me we are going west I could swear we are headed north.  At no time have I felt like the compass was correct.  Maybe it will get better but in the meantime we are grateful for GPS and Google maps.  Without them you would never hear from us again. 

The folks here in Fayetteville still seem to be hanging on to their confederate roots.  We walked through an historic cemetery on one of our morning walks and there are little confederate flags next to the headstones for the confederate veterans buried there.  One morning we found ourselves standing on the corner of Jeff Davis Blvd. and Stonewall Ave.  Other streets here, Beauregard and Forrest for example, seem to be named after other confederate generals.  However, we have not yet heard anyone shout, “The South will Rise Again!!”

We have found that southern hospitality is a real thing.  We have been warmly greeted by everyone we meet in stores, on the street and at church.  We attended our ward today for the first time and it is a large, friendly ward.  We had the idea that we would be attending a small struggling ward and that we would need to jump in and support them but they seem to be doing just fine.  I found myself having difficulty remembering the names of the people who introduced themselves to us so I started trying to associate them with people I already am familiar with.  One of the ward clerks walks and looks like Todd Newman back home.  One sister looks just like my medical assistant Alyssa Richardson.  One man looks like Jon Stewart on the Daily Show only about 20 years older,  and the elders quorum president is husky with a shaved head like my son Trent.  The list goes on but hopefully we will get to know people soon and after they have introduced themselves to us 3-4 times we will remember them.

 We thought that because we were coming to the Deep South that the ward choir would be rockin’ but one sister today says it is struggling.  We are going to attend stake choir practice this evening however.  They are rehearsing for a Freedom Fireside on June 30.  We will see how that goes.  I’m sure it won’t be up to Carl Ashby’s standards but we will try and do our part. 


I have had fun beginning my assignment as the Area Medical Advisor.  We had two Mission Medical Councils this week.  That council consists of the mission president and his wife, Carol and me, the Area Mental Health advisor and representatives from local LDS Family Services who provide local counseling to the missionaries who need it.  The meeting takes place on line as a video conference and we have enjoyed getting to know our counterparts from afar.  We are going to begin attending zone conferences next week with a trip to Nashville.  We will not attend every zone conference  because each mission has a zone conference with every transfer and we cannot possibly get to all of them.  But it will be fun to go to Nashville.  The conferences are on two separate days and on the evening between the conferences we are going to eat dinner in Nashville at B.B. King’s Blues Club.  It should be great. 

We are having a lot of fun and if the rest of our mission just keeps getting better, like people promise it will, it is going to be epic!


Love and miss you all,

Elder Rod and Sister Carol Merrell

PS.  We just got home from choir practice and it is going to be great.  Mr. Ashby would be proud of us. 

Sunday, May 26, 2019

05-26-2019 - First Sunday in Atlanta

Our Fayetteville Ward is filled with friendly, happy people. We are working at remembering their names. We were welcomed by many, many members including one Sunday dinner invitation, as well as an invitation to join the Stake choir tonight for song practice.  The choir is practicing for a "Freedom Concert" on June 30th. Rod and I committed to go.

We also received an invitation to attend the baptism of two 8-year-olds in the ward. It was a blessing to feel the spirit and visit with more ward members.  We are feeling right at home here.

Dinner with the Stoker family was relaxing and delicious.  Sister Stoker is the Relief Society President.  Her mother is living with her and has lived in Corvalis, Oregon where Andrea is living now.  Brother Stoker is a chemist working in Connecticut and flies home on weekends. I has to ask if he was related to the Pioneer, Bishop Stoker from Bountiful and he was.  My GG-Grandpa Henry Rampton was a counselor in his bishopric - a fun connection.

Choir practice was amazing. Sister Wilcox knows how to lead and has a large selection of difficult pieces of music.  I loved it!  She made it so fun as we just kept moving along through the pieces.  I had to really keep on my toes!

The world is a small place when you are a member of the church.  When Rod and I arrived at choir practice, I found the alto section and sat down. The choir director introduced us as the Merrell's from Tremonton, Utah.  The lady sitting next to me turned in surprise and asked, "Are you Chelsie's mother?"  She then told me she was Emily Hind, Daniel Neiderhauser's sister.  My Chelsie is married to Daniel Neiderhauser!  Emily said that she thought we looked familiar, but she thought she had probably seen us around from other church meetings.  What a surprise!

Tracy & Emily Hind and Sister & Elder Merrell
Stake Choir Practice 26 May 2019 



Saturday, May 25, 2019

05-25-2019 Settling into our Apartment & New Routine


What a warm welcome we received!  Elder and Sister Lloyd (the couple we are replacing) were so kind to meet us for lunch and to have the apartment ready to move into.  They also arranged for the Elders (Elder Sillito from Canada, Elder Dunn from Bluffdale, Utah, Elder Rushton from Washington State, Elder Hopkins, and Elder Smith, our DL) all from our apartment complex to help us move into our apartment. (The Elders were awesome!) The Lloyd's patiently answered all our many questions which helped us so much.  We are grateful for all their kindnesses.

Elder Hopkins and Elder Smith
Two of the missionaries who helped us move into our apartment.

President Clayton, our mission president, and his wife, Sister Clayton, invited Elder and Sister Lloyd and us to dinner our first night here.  What an enjoyable evening getting to know them.  It is wonderful to rub shoulders with such good people.

President and Sister Clayton

This week has been filled with unpacking, shopping, studying, missionary health councils, and morning walks.  We love it here!  The people are so friendly. It is so green and beautiful.  Trees are everywhere.


The gate to our apartment complex

The building we live in. Our balcony is in the middle, top floor.
The two windows to the right and left of the balcony are also part of our apartment.

The neighborhood swimming pool, not sure we will ever use,
but I'm sure the grandchildren will when they come for a visit.

Elder Merrell and I have been exploring the neighborhood on our morning walks.
We took a few pictures of our discoveries.

A pond outside our complex

A nearby cemetery.  This confederate flag marks the grave of a civil war veteran.
The cemetery was filled with these flags.

A path we walked on in the Ridge Nature Area

Ridge Nature Park
This was a quiet peaceful place for a morning walk with birds singing
and squirrels jumping from tree to tree.

We also had the opportunity to attend the Atlanta Temple with Elder and Sister Candee Read on Saturday, May 25th.  Elder Read takes care of the cars and Sister Read is the mission historian.  She also takes photos for the church.  One photo was used on the cover of an Ensign.

Sister and Elder Merrell at the Atlanta Temple

Elder and Sister Merrell and Elder and Sister Read

Elder Kohler, the mission secretary; Elder Bennett, mission finance clerk;
Elder and Sister Merrell







05-17-2019 - On the Road to Atlanta

America is beautiful! We traveled for 3 1/2 days and experienced a wide variety of temperatures and weather. The morning we left Salt Lake City, the temperature had dropped and it was raining.  By the time we reached Park City, the rain turned to snow.
Near Park City, Utah

We traveled on through Wyoming with beautiful rolling hills of green grass and windmills.  The same scenery continued through Colorado.  We stopped for the evening in Limon, Colorado.

Near Limon, Colorado
Saturday, we turned our backs to our majestic Rocky Mountains and headed east towards the great plains.  We traveled through Colorado and Kansas and then the terrain began to change and storms rolled in.  We hit a rain storm that seemed to literally pour buckets of water making visibility very difficult, but it moved out as quickly as it had moved in.

We stopped in Blue Springs Missouri for the night.  Sunday morning we attended church.  I love that wherever in the world we attend church, it always feels like home.


Blackwater, Missouri

Higginsville, Missouri
(I was so happy to discover that my camera takes pretty good pictures will driving 70-80 miles/hour)

More Missouri Countryside

St Louis, Missouri Gateway Arch


Mississippi River

Illinois State Line on the Mississippi

Ohio River in Paducah, Kentucky

Monteagle, Tennessee

We spent Sunday night in Murfreesboro, Tennesse and headed for Georgia Monday morning.

Georgia at last!!  The temperature high was 95 degrees and slightly muggy!
It felt good to be warm!


Friday, May 24, 2019

05-16-2019 - Medical Training in Salt Lake City

We finished our Missionary Medical Training on Thursday, May 16th! I’m so excited to be leaving for Atlanta in the morning. We are looking forward to meeting the Lloyds (who we will be replacing) and our mission president. We also are looking forward to singing in our ward choir. This choir may really rock!


Our Missionary Medical Training Group

Elder & Sister Clayton; the Melzers going to Houston, TX; the Auxiers, New York City; the Burgons, Seattle, WA; the Beaumont’s, Tucson, AZ; Sister Cannon, South Korea; the Palsteadts, South Carolina; the Stoddards, Phillipines; Sister Petersen, New Zealand; Sister Gonzalez, Mexico City; the Jones, Barbados; the Merrells; the Smiths, Denver, CO; the Kilgore’s, Directors; the Stevens, Directors; the Thomas’s, Samoa.

Elder Merrell and Elder Smith (Area Medical Advisors)
Sister Merrell and Sister Smith (Assistants)
We are sad to say goodbye to our new-found friends, but so happy to be on our way to serving our Savior and the missionaries in our assigned areas. 


We were blessed to spend our last evening in Utah with Justin and his family to say our final goodbyes.  We were also blessed to say our final goodbyes to Christian and Shelbie earlier in the week.  Christian was so good to bring my sewing machine from home. I had an impression that I may need it in Atlanta.  

Wednesday, May 15, 2019

05-10-2019 - We Loved the MTC!

What a wonderful week of growing and learning and feeling the spirit and associating with our new dear friends!

Our District with our morning instructor:
Bro Joe Holland, the Tippetts from Beaver, Utah assigned to Brasov, Romania; the Clarks from Sandy, Utah assigned to their home stake; the Triffitts from Tasmania, Australia assigned to the Mormon Trails near Martin's Cove, Wyoming, and the Merrells assigned to Atlanta, Georgia.

Our District with our afternoon instructors:
Bro Matt Keepman, the Triffitts, the Clarks, the Merrells, the Tippetts, and Bro Adam Martin


The following photos are all the Senior Missionaries attending training at the MTC this week.
There are 95 assigned to serve on 6 different continents along with hundreds of young missionaries.
We loved being around the young missionaries and their smiling faces and their boundless energy!
Elder and Sister Steve & Kristi Smith are 2nd on left.  They are assigned to be Area Medical Advisers in the Colorado Denver Mission. They were assigned to be our "others" during our training as we practiced teaching the gospel.  We came to love them dearly.  Elder Merrell and I are 3rd on left.





The new addition to the MTC with outside lighting pouring into every classroom!



The light of the gospel being poured over the earth!

This scripture brings peace and courage to my heart.


The tulips were so beautiful!  This is the walkway that took us to our room.



Gorgeous flowers!  What a wonderful time of year to be at the MTC!

Tuesday, May 7, 2019

05-07-2019 - MTC Experiences by Rod

So we have only been here for 2 days but we have covered so much material and had so many great experiences that it seems a lot longer than that. Over the two weeks prior to coming here to the MTC Carol and I were able to sit in on the Mission Health Council for three different missions. The meetings are video conferences with the Mission President and his wife, the Area Medical Adviser and his wife, the Area Mental Health Adviser, the mission nurse and a representative from LDS Family Services. The meetings last 1-1 ½ hours. It was really quite fun to be a fly on the wall and take a little peek into what we will be doing.

I was so anxious to finally get to work and do what we have been waiting 6 months to do that I told several people that I wished we could skip the MTC. After all, I had read Preach My Gospel several times and I thought I could skip that part. I was quite completely mistaken. I have learned things and received insights that I would never have been able to do on my own. And we have made great friends, even though we only met them yesterday afternoon.

Our companion couple are from Kennewick, Washington. He is a retired army doctor and is going to serve as the Area Medical Adviser in Denver. Then they, like us, already have several missions lined up. They will serve in Gilbert Arizona next and then will serve in New Zealand just before we do, so we will see them again when we arrive there to take their place. Talking to them is like talking to our clones. They have seven children like we do. But they have one biological child and adopted 6 children, several with special needs. We had six biologic children and adopted one. They have had similar life experiences to ours and similar challenges. We will be with them this week and again next week in SLC.

Had to take our picture with the famous MTC Map of the World!
Well it is time for bed. I am surprised how tired I am when all I did is sit in a classroom all day. As you know the meals are pretty good but they seem to come sooner than meals at home. We often don’t eat lunch until 1 or 1:30 and here we eat at noon. And dinner here is around 5pm, when we often didn't eat until 6 or 7. The time between dinner and breakfast however sure seems long and I was starving when it was time for breakfast this morning. Best wishes to you all.
Elder Merrell

There were a number of inspiring images and scriptures at the MTC.  The following images were about 10' x 30' making us feel like we were experiencing the moment with these prophets of God.  These are our favorites.

God reveals to Moses the workmanship of His hands.
"And I have a work for thee, Moses, my son."
Moses 1:6
(What role do I have in God's plan?)

Nephi prepares to enter Jerusalem to obtain the brass plates from Laban.
"And I was led by the Spirit, not knowing beforehand the things which I should do."
1 Nephi 4:6
(How am I being led?)

The brother of Jared prepares sixteen stones to present to the Lord.
"And the Lord said unto the brother of Jared: What will ye that I should do that ye may have light in your vessels?"
Ether 2:23
(How am I acting in faith?)

The sons of Mosiah go forth to bring many to the knowledge of their Redeemer.
"They taught with power and authority of God."
Alma 17:3
(How can I teach with the power of God?)


Sunday, May 5, 2019

05-05-2019 - Our Mission Begins

On December 4, 2018 Rod and I each received long-awaited emails from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, our mission calls.

My call read, "You are hereby called to serve as a missionary of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  You are assigned to labor in the Georgia Atlanta Mission.  Your primary assignment is to labor an an assistant to the area medical adviser. It is anticipated that you will serve for a period of 18 months.  You should report to the Provo Missionary Training Center on Monday, May 6, 2019."

We learned that the area that Rod (Elder Merrell) would be an adviser to would include 9 missions: Georgia Atlanta North, Georgia Atlanta, Georgia Macon, South Carolina Columbia, North Carolina Raleigh, North Carolina Charlotte, Tennessee Knoxville, Tennessee Nashville, and Kentucky Knoxville.


Tonight, May 5, 2019, Rod and I were set apart to serve as Missionaries in the Georgia Atlanta Mission by our stake president, President Harry McMurdie. Being set apart filled my heart with peace.  I know my family will be watched over and blessed while we are gone.  I also know that the Lord will help me in all I do.

We are so excited and ready to go and share the gospel that we love so much and to help our missionaries be healthy,  We will miss "all y'all" so very much.  (My new-found knowledge: All y'all is plural; y'all in singular)

President McMurdie
My Dad and Mom

Angie and Justin Merrell